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VACCINATE YOUR CHILDREN AND SAVE THEIR LIVES

  I grew up at the tail end of an era when killers of children lurked around every corner. We knew who they were, but we couldn’t stop them. We lived in dread, and when we left the house and went out into the world there was nothing we could do but pray. These killers had names like Polio, Whooping Cough, Measles, Mumps. They took the lives of thousands of children each year in one epidemic after another.   When I was a kid, everyone knew a family who was the victim of one of these...

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ANN SCOTT TIMMER APPOINTED TO ARIZONA SUPREME COURT

I am leaving in a few minutes to attend the investiture ceremony for Arizona's newest Supreme Court Justice, Ann Scott Timmer. Judge Timmer was my first law clerk while she was still a student at Arizona State University School of Law. Upon graduating from law school, she went on to work for a prestigious law firm in the Phoenix area. After proving her worth as an attorney, she became a Maricopa County Superior Court judge and, later, was appointed to the Arizona Court of Appeals. Now she will...

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“PREGNANT MAN” AND HIS WIFE CAN’T GET A DIVORCE IN ARIZONA

A man and woman file for divorce in Arizona. They have a child, and then two more. The custody of their children becomes a disputed issue. They ask the judge to decide. But the judge refuses. He claims the court does not have jurisdiction. Why? Because Arizona law states that a marriage is only valid if it is between a man and a woman. Same-sex marriages are forbidden.   But hold on . . . we're not talking about same-sex marriage. The parties obtained an official marriage license based on the...

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MASS VIOLENCE MUST BE STOPPED

The massacre of kindergarten children and their teachers in Newtown, Connecticut is the latest, and most gruesome, an example of what appears to be a growing trend. It's the new domestic terrorism. Murder without motive. No ideology. No purpose other than to take innocent lives. This insanity must be stopped, but how? Stricter gun laws? A greater focus on identifying and treating mental illness? Ending the glorification of violence in video games, movies, and television? Armed guards in...

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OUR TOP-TEN LIST FOR GETTING THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS

Let’s face it, the holidays are stressful under the best of circumstances. But for a divorced parent, or someone going through a custody dispute, the holidays can be a grueling experience. The good news is that there are proven strategies that can help make the holidays bearable and . . . (dare I say?) . . . even fun. Here is my Top Ten List for getting through the holidays: 1. Plan in Advance Going into the holiday season with your parenting plans up in the air can be a source of stress not...

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NEW STATISTICS ON MOTHERHOOD

The 2012 U.S. Census Bureau statistics on motherhood in America paint a complex picture. The number of single mothers living with children under 18 has almost tripled in the past 30-40 years. Over five million mothers had child support orders that were unpaid as of 2009. More than 55% of mothers who recently gave birth were working to support themselves and their children, as of 2010. More children are in daycare than ever before, and that number is growing. There were more than 800,000...

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HOW TO BOUNCE BACK FROM DIVORCE

  Divorce is a life-changing experience. Anyone who has been through the experience will agree. But although it is certainly difficult, it doesn’t have to be devastating. With a positive attitude and good coping strategies, you can survive the transition and build a happier life than you ever thought possible. 1. Accept that your life has changed: Don’t live in a state of denial. Accept the fact that you are now single and life will be different. Look for ways to build new friendships and...

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FIVE TIPS ON BECOMING THE BEST DAD YOU CAN BE

Being a divorced dad isn’t easy. You are now a single parent. You no longer have another parent to lean on. When the kids are with you, they are really with you. That’s the tough part. But it’s also the great part.  You have not only the responsibility but the opportunity, to develop a loving and lasting relationship with the most important people in your life – your children. Here are five tips to help you become the best dad you can be: 1.  Listen attentively. When your children are talking...

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BABY VERONICA – Did the Court Truly Consider the Best Interests of the Child?

The Indian Child Welfare Act, enacted in the 1970's, was intended to protect Native American Children and their tribes. For decades, many Native American children were taken (some were literally stolen) from their parents and sent to Anglo families for adoption. (According to CNN, at one point, 30% of children on reservations were taken from their parents.) The Indian Child Welfare Act was meant to correct this horrible injustice, and others like it. But in the 2012 case of Baby Veronica, this...

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SOCIAL MEDIA & CUSTODY – How To Traverse the Minefield

This is already an old story, but it bears repeating: How you use social media could determine whether you win, or lose, custody of your children. Today, we all use social media. It is how we stay connected to friends and family; how we network; and often, it is how we communicate our feelings and opinions.  But here's a warning:  Comments and photos posted on social media sites like Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin, Match.com, and Blogs are considered to be admissible evidence in a custody case,...

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BABY VERONICA RULING – DID THE COURT TRULY CONSIDER THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILD?

The Indian Child Welfare Act, enacted in the 1970's, was intended tThe Indian Child Welfare Act, enacted in the 1970s, was intended to protect Native American Children and their tribes. For decades, many Native American children were taken (some were literally stolen) from their parents and sent to anglo families for adoption. (According to CNN, at one point, 30% of children on reservations were taken from their parents.) The Indian Child Welfare Act was meant to correct this horrible...

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EMBRACING CHANGE

"Change is constant. For some people, especially those who come from bigger companies, the constant change can be somewhat unsettling at first. We must all learn not only to not fear change, but to embrace it enthusiastically and, perhaps even more important, to encourage and drive it. We must always plan for and be prepared for constant change . . . Never accept or be too comfortable with the status quo, because the companies that get into trouble are historically the ones that aren't able to...

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COURTS ARE BEGINNING TO RECOGNIZE THE CONTRIBUTION OF FATHERS

There was a time when fathers were typically given "visitation" with their children, and rarely received custody. But things are changing. Today, joint custody is becoming the norm. Courts are beginning to realize that, as mothers, fathers can be nurturers, and that children benefit from the contributions of both parents. But as the law evolves, we need to take care not to attempt to fit custody cases into a one-size-fits-all model. For instance, some states are considering a "cookie-cutter"...

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IT’S NOT OVER ‘TIL IT’S OVER

It is not at all surprising that when one spouse files for a divorce, the other sometimes continues to hold out hope for a reconciliation, believing that the marriage is not irretrievably broken. But what may surprise you is that Arizona law gives that person an opportunity to make one last stab at fixing the relationship. Arizona Revised Statutes, Section 25-329 provides that the Court shall not hold a trial, nor finalize a divorce, within sixty (60) days from the date that the divorce papers...

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November 2009 I retained Mr. Frank almost two years to represent me in a visitation modification filed by my ex-husband. Mr. Frank quickly and efficiently became familiar with my case and was very honest about all the potential results that could occur. I truly feel that Mr. Frank had my children’s best interests in mind…

– Judy K