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STRANGE DIVORCE LAWS

Do you know that? -- In Kentucky, It is illegal to marry the same person four times. In Wichita, Kansas a man’s mistreatment of his mother-in-law is not grounds for a divorce. In Delaware, a marriage can be annulled if it was entered into on a dare. Under the “Alienation of Affection” laws of New Mexico and Mississippi, a scorned spouse can sue his or her former spouse’s lover for damages. In England, where a couple must have legal grounds for divorce: (1)  A man filed for divorce based on the...

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HELP SUPPORT “FOOTSTEPS FOR COREY”

Corey Vargas is a 21-year-old kid who was walking his dog in the desert outside of Phoenix, AZ, and fell 30 feet into a dry riverbed. He broke his back in several places and laid there, paralyzed and helpless, for three long days. That Corey survived is a miracle. He surely had a guardian angel watching over him (and sometimes guardian angels come in animal form). It was his dog, Ace, who stayed by his side and kept him safe until he could be rescued. Thankfully, Corey has his life back. But...

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MORE WOMEN ARE FAMILY BREADWINNERS THAN EVER BEFORE

Our society is changing fast. Today, women have opportunities like never before, and they are making the most of their new situation. A USA Today analysis of U.S. Census Bureau data reveals some startling statistics: In 1976 only 6 percent of families consisted of a wife who was the sole breadwinner. Today, wives are the sole breadwinner in 23 percent of all families;Wives now out-earn their working husbands 28% of the time. Twenty-five years ago only 16% of wives out-earned their husband;In...

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IN A SETTLEMENT MEETING, THE PARTIES ARE IN CONTROL OF THE OUTCOME

I attended a settlement meeting yesterday. The clients and their attorneys met for an hour and made a good faith effort to resolve their family law dispute but were unable to bridge the gap. In the parking lot, on the way out, the former spouses began to talk once again. I watched through a window as they stood there speaking to each other.  Ninety minutes later, they came back inside and announced that they had reached a settlement.This is what can happen if parties to a family law dispute...

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IF OUR LEGAL SYSTEM WAS A GAME OF PING PONG, CHILDREN WOULD BE THE BALL

Ever since the Arizona legislature passed its new law replacing "custody" with "legal decision-making" and "parenting time" something has been bothering me that I couldn't quite put my finger on -- until today. In reviewing the development of custody law for an upcoming trial, it occurred to me that the history of Family Law in America has always been a battle between "Mothers' Rights" and "Fathers' Rights."  . . . But what about Children's Rights?  Who speaks for them?From the time this...

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VACCINATE YOUR CHILDREN AND SAVE THEIR LIVES

  I grew up at the tail end of an era when killers of children lurked around every corner. We knew who they were, but we couldn’t stop them. We lived in dread, and when we left the house and went out into the world there was nothing we could do but pray. These killers had names like Polio, Whooping Cough, Measles, Mumps. They took the lives of thousands of children each year in one epidemic after another.   When I was a kid, everyone knew a family who was the victim of one of these...

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ANN SCOTT TIMMER APPOINTED TO ARIZONA SUPREME COURT

I am leaving in a few minutes to attend the investiture ceremony for Arizona's newest Supreme Court Justice, Ann Scott Timmer. Judge Timmer was my first law clerk while she was still a student at Arizona State University School of Law. Upon graduating from law school, she went on to work for a prestigious law firm in the Phoenix area. After proving her worth as an attorney, she became a Maricopa County Superior Court judge and, later, was appointed to the Arizona Court of Appeals. Now she will...

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“PREGNANT MAN” AND HIS WIFE CAN’T GET A DIVORCE IN ARIZONA

A man and woman file for divorce in Arizona. They have a child, and then two more. The custody of their children becomes a disputed issue. They ask the judge to decide. But the judge refuses. He claims the court does not have jurisdiction. Why? Because Arizona law states that a marriage is only valid if it is between a man and a woman. Same-sex marriages are forbidden.   But hold on . . . we're not talking about same-sex marriage. The parties obtained an official marriage license based on the...

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MASS VIOLENCE MUST BE STOPPED

The massacre of kindergarten children and their teachers in Newtown, Connecticut is the latest, and most gruesome, an example of what appears to be a growing trend. It's the new domestic terrorism. Murder without motive. No ideology. No purpose other than to take innocent lives. This insanity must be stopped, but how? Stricter gun laws? A greater focus on identifying and treating mental illness? Ending the glorification of violence in video games, movies, and television? Armed guards in...

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OUR TOP-TEN LIST FOR GETTING THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS

Let’s face it, the holidays are stressful under the best of circumstances. But for a divorced parent, or someone going through a custody dispute, the holidays can be a grueling experience. The good news is that there are proven strategies that can help make the holidays bearable and . . . (dare I say?) . . . even fun. Here is my Top Ten List for getting through the holidays: 1. Plan in Advance Going into the holiday season with your parenting plans up in the air can be a source of stress not...

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NEW STATISTICS ON MOTHERHOOD

The 2012 U.S. Census Bureau statistics on motherhood in America paint a complex picture. The number of single mothers living with children under 18 has almost tripled in the past 30-40 years. Over five million mothers had child support orders that were unpaid as of 2009. More than 55% of mothers who recently gave birth were working to support themselves and their children, as of 2010. More children are in daycare than ever before, and that number is growing. There were more than 800,000...

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HOW TO BOUNCE BACK FROM DIVORCE

  Divorce is a life-changing experience. Anyone who has been through the experience will agree. But although it is certainly difficult, it doesn’t have to be devastating. With a positive attitude and good coping strategies, you can survive the transition and build a happier life than you ever thought possible. 1. Accept that your life has changed: Don’t live in a state of denial. Accept the fact that you are now single and life will be different. Look for ways to build new friendships and...

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FIVE TIPS ON BECOMING THE BEST DAD YOU CAN BE

Being a divorced dad isn’t easy. You are now a single parent. You no longer have another parent to lean on. When the kids are with you, they are really with you. That’s the tough part. But it’s also the great part.  You have not only the responsibility but the opportunity, to develop a loving and lasting relationship with the most important people in your life – your children. Here are five tips to help you become the best dad you can be: 1.  Listen attentively. When your children are talking...

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BABY VERONICA – Did the Court Truly Consider the Best Interests of the Child?

The Indian Child Welfare Act, enacted in the 1970's, was intended to protect Native American Children and their tribes. For decades, many Native American children were taken (some were literally stolen) from their parents and sent to Anglo families for adoption. (According to CNN, at one point, 30% of children on reservations were taken from their parents.) The Indian Child Welfare Act was meant to correct this horrible injustice, and others like it. But in the 2012 case of Baby Veronica, this...

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Very honest

November 2009 I retained Mr. Frank almost two years to represent me in a visitation modification filed by my ex-husband. Mr. Frank quickly and efficiently became familiar with my case and was very honest about all the potential results that could occur. I truly feel that Mr. Frank had my children’s best interests in mind…

– Judy K